BDSM in our daily life

Personally I my self love to see or watch a great BDSM movies i love to see real life couple do BDSM stuff and i also like the idea of a BDSM Lifestyle were you can see a slave and master or a mistress. There are a lot of BDSM movie in the internet that has a real life BDSM couple. As a watch many BDSM movie i always notice one thing, not all people are dominant some love to be dominated that is why i realize that in a personal life BDSM really exist in a couple even an ordinary couple BDSM exist within them weather they accept it or not That Means BDSM is not a unique thing that only few people do but it is done by any other ordinary couple in this earth. For example a couple is engage in an ordinary sex weather we admit it or not we pleasure your partner and by pleasuring her or him you sometimes do stuff and the other partner is just lying and enjoying it self so it means your dominatimg your partner you dictate the tempo so that she or he could pleasure it self that is BDSM right dominating partner to make her or him pleasure and sensual. This are the fact that made BDSM as a regular habit in any couple.